Like a dried-apple doll’s, Carmela’s 99-year-old wrinkled smile was sweet but a little spooky. She had come to the hospital from home, with two daughters in their 70s, her little old medical doctor of 30 years, Dr. Jones , most of her teeth and one badly broken hip. They’re not too impressed with high-functioning centegenarians in my hospital anymore; we get quite a few these days. But Carmela stood out. She was a little deaf and a slightly wacky but she had a twinkle about her. She was just so cute and vivacious that you couldn’t help liking her. And she loved to talk only not in English. Her hearty Neapolitan dialect went up and down like the heaving deck of a ship, straining my year of college Italian. When she realized I could make her out, though, it sealed the deal we would, of various necessities, be friends.
It took a few days, many medicines and quite a few units of packed red cells to get her blood counts up to the point where she could have the hip operation safely. This is a dicey business with the very old. The transfusions put them into heart failure